Is love for real or is it just something that they say to help people think that they are needed?
...... I hope that I get there soon
Published on March 31, 2006 By Kaulani In Home & Family
I just looked back at almost all of my blogs, and they have all been depressing and poor me for a long time. I am looking for that turn on to happy lane, it is just hard to find with all the bad stuff in my life. I always look at the negative, I always have. I think it is time for a change.

Everyone else has moved on to the next chapter in their lives, but I am still holding on to the old one. I am not ready to move on. But who can make time stand still? I have been given an offer to move to Texas with a friend, and lately I have been considering it. I am not getting along with my family, and I am tired of fighting.

My friend who hasnt talked to me in months wants to get together saturday, and I am excited. She said that she never meant to hurt me, and that she never meant to make me feel abandoned she just had alot going on at home with her husband. I get that I do, but I am very jealous of her, she is 17 and already found the love of her life.

I want to find my happiness, but I do not know where to look. I have to let go of the past. I feel like I am on the edge of the cliff of life, and it is time for me to take the plunge into the next chapter, but I am holding on for dear life to stay in the past. So I am going to try and let go, but it is hard. I am not ready for the responsibily of adulthood, I am not ready to deal with the things that I need to deal with. But I have to if I want to find happiness, so here I go.

Here I come happiness, hopefully my next blog will be happy. I will try to start finding the positive in everything. I will spread my wings and fly, even if it is just down the street a little bit, or if it is all the way to Texas. I will fly away just to prove that I can.

Comments
on Mar 31, 2006
The most fantastic thing about being an adult, Kaulani, is that your happiness is largely up to you! I think you should strongly consider the move to Texas, because it seems you have a stronger support system in the Lone Star State than you do where you're at. Plus, Texas is an all around great state (not that I'm biased or anything!)

I think a clean break from some of the heartaches of the past would do you a world of good. Give it a shot; what have you got to lose?

But that's just my opinion on the matter. Only you can make the decision, ultimately.
on Mar 31, 2006
Thank you Gideon, you are right I do seem to have a stronger support system in Texas. I have nothing to lose, except mabye a few hundred dollars of moving cost, and a job. But they are both replacable!
Aloha
on Apr 18, 2006

You dont' have to prove that you can fly.

I knew it all along.

Trinitie

on Apr 18, 2006
I hearby grant you a mm pass good for one great love, the only thing is your great love whom ever that may be is the only one that can redeem it.

MM
on Aug 14, 2006
Moderateman that is the most amazing thing that anyone has ever said to me. thank you for that. I know that everything will work out in the end it is just hard to keep positive. Because I have not been happy now for so long. What is funny is that I stuck my neck out there hopping for the best and it got sliced in half!
aloha